So then - Jude's horrible marriage. Both of them! Where shall we start?
(Jude on Arabella) Illuminated with the sense that all was over between them, that it mattered not what she did, or he, her husband stood still, regarding her. Their lives were ruined, he thought; ruined by the fundamental error of their matrimonial union: that of having based a permanent contract on a temporary feeling which had no necessary connection with the affinities that alone render a life-long comradeship tolerable (64)
On marriage, then -- focusing on divorce laws, but also Hardy's critique of common-law marriage? On marriage, sex, and children (a BIG issue), and why contracts are something to be wary of.
There's a really interesting point about halfway through, when Sue is worried about her marriage, and Jude says something to the effect of "Nobody cares!" Meaning, marriage among the poor is largely invisible -- if they were lords, it would matter, but because they are poor, they actually have a tremendous amount of freedom do "do as they like," (in Arnold's words).
(Jude - on divorce) There is this advantage in being poor obscure people like us -- that these things are done for us in a rough and ready fashion. It was the same with me and Arabella. I was afraid her criminal second marriage would have been discovered, and she punished; but nobody took any interest in her -- nobody inquired, nobody suspected it. If we'd been patented nobilities we should have had infinite trouble, and days and weeks would have been spent in investigations (248).
This is obviously not true in practice -- the book spends an inordinate amount of time looking at how communities police themselves. The uncanny ability to know when someone is married or when they aren't is an interesting point here - Hardy emphasizes the *visibility* of marriage quite a bit, whether on paper or in practice (this is something that Sue, at least, never seems to get). Certainly relevant re: common-law marriages (vs. more formalized unions). Also relevant re: marriage by deception -- in Arabella's case - where one can stumble into marriages before even realizing what is happening.
I have no idea where spiritualism comes in here. To be honest, I don't feel like I 'get' any of the conversions in the novel. They don't seem to be nearly as persuasive, as a critique of social practice than the community scenes (where Jude and Sue are being ejected / where Jude is speaking among a group of people). Personal conversion is all fine and dandy -- and may be a good way to read Sue, separately -- but it doesn't seem to fit within the broader context of the quartet, especially with the main focus on Jude, whose loss of faith seems solid throughout.
Point of order: Conversion MIGHT be an interesting place to bring in D.H. Lawrence - especially since he really wants to focus on Sue, an dmake her the central point of the novel
A few sections I want to look at:
1. Phillotson's conversion (Section IV) - his arguments for free love to Gillingham (along with Eliza, one of the only characters outside the quartet) --> as a defense of free love / of common-law marriage - a Platonic union (223)
(Though later, we find out that he justified this mostly because he assumed Sue was having an affair - i.e. having sex with Jude)
2. Section V (in Aldbrickham) -- the "domestic" section, where Jude and Sue live happily with Father Time, Idyllic domestic bliss -- also, the point where the social body (the gossiping townspeople) come most stringently to the fore. Notably, the section where Arabella is not permitted into the house. Introduction of children (Father Time). Also, later, the section where Jude and Sue become transients.
3. Section VI (in Christminster) as a critique of homelessness - especially when the family is literally forced to split up for the evening. The fear is that Sue will have her baby -- what actually happens is the triple / homicide (notably, when Jude is not around)
Throughout the novel:
Male friendship vs. female friendship -- why do Sue and Arabella never connect? Not in comparison with Jude, but with Phillotson, who has male friends throughout (first Jude, then Gillingham) --> later, the failure of male friendship? (SUE as Jude's only friend? 350)
Hardy's relationship with the Bronte sisters -- Arabella as a succubus (Jane Eyre, the returning wife) -- also Wuthering Heights -- the transient lovers (in the end, treated ironically) - Arabella - a working-class Bertha Rochester? (a way to bring this character to life?) --> an ironic inversion of the succubus wife?
Arabella: She may swear that on her knees to the holy cross upon her necklace till she's hoarse, but it won't be true. She's never found peace since she left his arms, and never will again till she's as he is now (397)